Oct 29, 2014 -> My Bday . Unlike previous Birth days , this year bday was quite different and made me to realize that I have become a matured person (guess maturity comes along with age ha ha) :). I was so serene when my hubby couldn’t spend more time with me(I myself surprised about my attitude shift) , he is loaded with work, besides he has also signed up for a “Hackathon event” in his office. Few days before my bday, He took me out for shopping and bought me a skirt and top. On my Bday, Morning My 2yr old son sang “Happy bday to you” , It was very cute. :). My hubby took care of our son and he gave me a break for a while from my regular mom duties – that was the greatest gift for me. Then he went to work around 10.30 a.m.
Evening , we went to a temple. Then, my hubby took us out to a Burmese restaurant “MOH Kitchen ” for dinner. It was small, descent and pretty clean restaurant. Veg. food tasted really good there. My hubby requested the restaurant waiter to place a candle on top of the Dessert, Unfortunately they didn’t have any candles and also I overheard their conversation 🙂 . After our dinner , my hubby took me to a nearest bakery, I felt little odd and apprehensive to choose my own bday cake. Then, my hubby dropped us home and he went out . When he returned, he carried a small cake and a candle on its top, It was 10.45 PM my bday almost over, I was little mad , amazingly I didn’t fight or argue with him but I denied to cut the cake , I told my son to cut the cake on my behalf. But , later I felt bad for it. So, the next day, I told my hubby that I will cut the cake (thank god, my hubby kept the cake in the refrigerator) and finally we had the cake cut :). 7 years back, on my bday ( My 1st bday after our marriage), my hubby didn’t wish me exactly @ 12.00 a.m, I was very upset , I fought for that nearly 2 hours with him :),Since then , my hubby never forgets to wish me @ 12.00 :).
With respect to my friends, I got so many wishes in Facebook, Viber, Whatzapp, Some messages were really surprising :). Big thanks for all the wishes. But, I got hardly 3 phone calls from my friends. I wondered, my friends those who wish me over phone every year, didn’t call me this year. Hmm, guess they are too busy with their life. or May be , as technical communication grows , personal interaction getting reduced . Whatever be the reason , I was happy that I got at least text messages from them . one of my friend gifted me in advance (2 weeks before my bday) a cozy hand bag . As usual I got a phone call from my little sister , every year she wishes me @ sharp 12.00 a.m, so sweet of her.
Regarding my last year bday resolution, I was able to accomplish the following 1)Avoid junk foods 2) let go of expectations 3) cook other cuisines (so far attempted Thai dessert and pasta) 4) Be organized. I am really happy that I was able to execute at least 4 resolutions out of 10.
My this year bday resolution / bucket list :
- Loose weight (at least 10 pounds).
- Learn to get rid off driving fear and drive alone frequently. Got to drive long distance trip.
- Learn to be straight forward at the same time be diplomatic ( should not hesitate to let out my opinion.)
- Go for skydiving
- Learn to cook other cuisine foods
- Wake up early(I fail in this every year, lets see whether I can make it this time)
- Exercise regularly
- Got to organize an adventurous “Camping”
- Improve communication skill (especially when it comes to talking)
- Be more organized ( when compare to last year, I got better but still got to improve ).
- Socialize more and make new friends.
- Blog frequently.
Hopefully by next bday I would have fulfilled all of my resolutions.