word to the wise…

I wanted to share few messages/lessons that  I have gleaned from my past and also inherited  from the books that I read:

  1. Never assume about other person decision/opinion, better ask them, let it directly come from the respective individuals .
  2. Never argue with someone when you are hungry (it applies to our loved ones too). when our stomach is empty , our patience will go for a toss.  Better take a break rather than arguing 🙂 . Like the Ad says, You are not yourself , when you are hungry. It’s so true from my experience. 🙂
  3. Learn to say “NO”, Think twice or thrice before saying ‘Yes’ to anyone , Don’t blindly say “Yes”.
  4. It’s really hard to satisfy everyone. If you feel, what you did was right(remove ego out of equation) then ignore, on the other hand, your inner voice says “oops, Wrong”, then don’t hesitate to apologize.
  5. Avoid saying “Sorry” unnecessarily. I used to say sorry for everything but after reading an article forwarded by my close friend, I have reduced unnecessary apologies.
  6. It’s really hard to change someone the way we want. But , its comparatively easy to change ourself.
  7. Try to set right expectation from the right person/ situation. In other words Don’t expect apple from orange trees.
  8. Avoid being judgmental. In other words don’t label someone before you get to know them very well and try to be open-minded .
  9. Advise someone only if they seek for it.
  10. Words are more powerful, let the words uttered from your mouth be great-positive  words rather than bad rude words.

 

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About shobz

Fun loving and amicable person. Neither an extrovert nor an introvert. Enjoy reading books. Mostly, attracted to health related articles. Passionate about music. Have a long time desire “to sing at a concert”. Striving to be an exuberant and straight forward person. saying that inspire me ” Instead of expecting a miracle; Be the Miracle”.
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One Response to word to the wise…

  1. Raji MKSamy says:

    Good one! Very concise!

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